Happy New Year, everyone! I hope 2011 brings you all love and happiness!
I've been reading so many lovely 2010 wrap-up and 2011 resolution posts, that I thought I'd just jot down a few of my own!
2010 was a pretty great year, as a whole. I finished my second year of university, I took Fred to visit England and Scotland for the first time, I worked in a museum for the summer, I started this blog.. I feel like I learnt so much this year about myself too. Becoming more involved in body acceptance and fat activism through both fashion and academics have dramatically changed the way I think, not only about myself, but about life in general. I still can't believe how much I've changed in the past year, and I am adamant that I will continue to grow in 2011 too.
I can't express how much the fatshion and fat activist blogs have helped me through this change too, so thank-you! I would be so lost without you all, and I appreciate you for reading my little blog all the time too.
Some thoughts for the new year...
I want to..
1. Take more pictures! Of my family, friends, scenery, events, trips, and just day-to-day experiences, and then display them instead of leaving them on my computer.
2. Continue on the long road of acceptance of myself and others, without exclusions.
3. Be kind.
4. Craft more!
5. Continue to educate myself, and also allow myself to be educated by others.
6. Take care of me - body, mind, soul. I don't want to lose weight but I want to treat my body with respect, including eating well (which is, of course, subjective) and I want to eat whatever I feel like and whatever my body tells me it needs. I want to cook more from scratch and not be lazy with my choices, because my body feels better when I do so. I want to cook more with Fred, who is after all a professional cook! But I will never deny myself when I just feel like eating a pizza or a whole chocolate orange. I also want to exercise more because it gives my body energy and gives my mind calm.
7. Appreciate Fred, my family, and my friends more. I take them for granted a lot and I hate myself when I do so. I need to make a conscious effort not to, and I need to be told when I do.
8. Enjoy the little things in life everyday, even if I have a shitty day, or I do nothing, or things don't go to plan, or I am not self-disciplined - I need to remember I am human, and I can't be too critical of myself or others.
9. Be more creative with my fashion. I am a relatively poor student and can't afford new clothes all the time, so I need to curb my spending, remix items, and enjoy what I have instead of rushing out and buying something new. I am going to start a new feature here where every week I will rework an item of clothing at least twice. I hope it inspires me, and maybe you :) I am also participating in a No-Spend January challenge, organized by the ever-lovely Anna at Bargain Fatshionista.
These aren't resolutions per se, because I think of these as positive but small changes that I can make on a day-to-day basis. I am publishing them here in the hope that if I write them down I can check myself every now and then.
What are your resolutions?